Preschool Pre-Writing Activities For 2 And 3 Year Olds

Get lots of pre-writing ideas to prepare your 2 or 3 year old for writing letters and learn how to get started with handwriting practice WITHOUT alphabet tracing worksheets. 

Alphabet Letter Tracing And Writing Before Kindergarten

Kindergarten readiness checklists can put a lot of pressure on parents to get their toddler or preschooler to go from scribbling to writing his or her first name before kindergarten.

For handwriting practice to be meaningful, your child should understand that letters represent speech sounds and be physically able to form letters using the tripod grip and memory of the letter pathway.

It isn’t until around 4-5 years old that children typically have the hand strength and coordination to hold a pencil using the tripod grip. 

Tripod Grip Pencil Grasp

That’s why there’s no rush to encourage 2 and 3 year old children to practice handwriting, despite kindergarten readiness checklists that say your child should be able to trace letters on worksheets and even write some letters without tracing.

My approach is all about offering the right activity at the right time to meet your child where he or she is at developmentally. 

I recommend gently guiding your child towards early literacy milestones through lots of indirect preparation of the hand and mind.

That way your child will progress from scribbling to writing letters and words when your child is ready. 

Pre-Writing Activities To Offer Toddlers And Preschoolers While Waiting For The Tripod Grip To Develop

1. Offer opportunities to learn that letters represent speech sounds.

Your toddler or preschooler does not need to trace letter worksheets in order to start learning the alphabet.

The alphabet is a very abstract concept for a 2 or 3 year old child to understand.

Letters are symbols that only have meaning because we’ve all agreed that a certain letter (or letter combination) represents a certain speech sound. For example, the letter t represents the sound /t/, which is pronounced like “tuh” but without the “uh” on the end.

Tracing letter worksheets, or even wooden alphabet boards, won't have any meaning until a child has started developing phonemic awareness.

Phonemic awareness activities don't involve any letter symbols and instead focus on helping your preschooler hear the individual sounds (phonemes) in spoken words.

To get started, it's fun to play a beginning sounds activity using pictures or a set of Montessori language objects as props. It's like "I SPY" except you focus on the beginning sound of a word: "I see something that starts with the sound /d/." 

Once your child can identify at least the beginning sound of spoken words, then it’s the right time to show your child what that sound looks like using Montessori sandpaper letters.

Tracing each lowercase tactile letter and saying its sound during sound-letter matching activities will help your child develop muscular, visual and auditory memory of the alphabet letters. It's a fun way to learn the pathway of each letter before the hand is ready to hold a pencil with the tripod grip!

Montessori sandpaper letters with beginning sounds alphabet phonics objects 

The reason I prefer Montessori sandpaper letters versus other wooden alphabet tracing boards is because each letter is on its own individual board and the letters are large enough to allow tracing with the pointer and index fingers. Tracing with these two fingers will help to develop the proper grip for holding a pencil.

I also recommend that you only introduce lowercase letter symbols at this time.

If you start with uppercase letters, your child won’t be set up for success with reading or writing because written words are made up of mostly lowercase letters. You can always do lowercase-uppercase matching activities later on to help your child learn uppercase letters for reading and writing.

2. Offer opportunities for scribbling.

Scribbling progresses through stages and it indirectly prepares your child for writing. It’s a very valuable activity for your child’s cognitive development!

As adults we may not pay much attention to the scribbling and dismiss it as unimportant until it looks like something we can recognize.

A young toddler (around 15 months to 2½ years) will scribble randomly. Young toddlers will hold a crayon or marker with a fisted grip.

As your child approaches 3 years old, you’ll start to see the scribbling is more controlled and might feature some lines and geometric shapes.

When your child begins to talk while scribbling, you’ll know he or she has progressed to the next stage. You’ll notice that your child now names things he or she is “drawing” even if you cannot recognize the objects.

Between 3 and 5 years, your child will transition from scribbling to symbolic representation. You’ll be able to recognize that your child is drawing objects and people, and there’s usually a story to go along with each drawing.

Even if your child’s drawing is predominately scribbles, you’ll know he or she has progressed to the next stage if you see recognizable objects such as a face or a sun. Your child might also draw squiggly lines to represent writing.

Encourage your 2 or 3 year old child to scribble! It’s ok if your child is “only” scribbling right now. It just indicates that’s where your child is at developmentally.

You’ll want to keep scribbling materials on a low shelf so that they are accessible. This way your child can scribble whenever he or she wants to. The activity set up can be as simple as a few sheets of paper in a tray with 3-5 crayons.

A young toddler will be happy with just one crayon! You can keep it interesting by swapping out the scribbling tool. Whether that’s crayons, chalk, or chalk pastels, make sure that they are short enough to make it hard for your 2 or 3 year old child to hold them with a fisted grip. Broken crayons or “rock crayons” are great!

Markers don't require much pressure to make a mark on paper. That's why it's a good idea to avoid them if you want to help your child strengthen the hand and arm muscles for later handwriting activities.

You’ll probably notice that as your child’s scribbles transition into drawings, the way he or she holds a pencil will also go through stages.

If your child hasn’t yet developed the tripod grip and you offer long pencils, then you’ll notice your child will hold it in an awkward way.

That’s why I recommend holding off on introducing regular-size pencils until your child’s hand is strong enough to hold them properly. You can look up charts online to see where your child is at in terms of developing the pencil grip.

3. Offer practical life activities to develop fine motor skills and concentration to prepare the hand and mind for writing letters.

To be able to hold a pencil and write letters, your child needs to have strong hand muscles, hand-eye coordination and the ability to concentrate.

Sometimes parents get so focused on the academic skills like writing letters that they dismiss the value of practical life activities for preparing the hand for writing and building concentration.

Each time your 2 or 3 year old child puts on his or her own socks or shoes, or zips up his or her coat, helps to prepare food or cleans up a spill, your child is getting ready for writing letters!

While you’re waiting for your preschooler to be able to hold a pencil with the tripod grip, you can offer lots of fine motor activities to build those hand muscles.

Here are some ideas to get you started.

  • Peel a hard-boiled egg
  • Pick grapes off the vine and put them into a bowl
  • Shell peas
  • Put fruit on skewers to make fruit kabobs
  • Zip and unzip a variety of zippers in a basket
  • Fasten and unfasten nuts and bolts
  • Open and close mini bottles or carabiner clips
  • Use a screwdriver or wrench
  • Squeeze and eyedropper
  • Poke holes in paper with an oversize push pin
  • Put batteries in a flashlight
  • Unlock a lock with a key
  • Stretch elastic bands on a geo board to make shapes or a design
  • Thread beads onto a string
  • Secure small stacks of card stock with paper clips or brads
  • Make/undo a knot with a rope
  • Basic lacing or sewing
  • Sculpt with artist clay or play dough

Pre-writing activities ideas for toddlers and preschoolers to get ready for writing letters

4. Model handwriting and the tripod grip.

Instead of pushing your toddler or preschooler to trace letters before the hand and mind is ready for this kind of activity, model handwriting in front of your child.

That way your child will absorb these ideas to get ready for writing:

  • letters represent speech sounds
  • written words represent spoken words
  • written words are made up of sounds in a row
  • we write from left to right

An easy way to model handwriting is to write your child’s name on any scribbling or other artwork that he or she creates.

You can also get into the habit of making a grocery shopping list with your child. You can ask your child for ideas of what to buy at the grocery story and then write them down using lowercase letters.

Another idea is to invite your child to tell you a story about a picture, and you write it down.

It’s important to model the correct tripod grip when you're writing in front of your child!

Notice how you hold the pencil. You might have to consciously change how you hold the pencil to model how to hold it properly!

The Next Step Towards Handwriting After These Pre-Writing Activities For 2 and 3 Year Olds

If you start phonemic awareness activities around 3 years old, and do sound-letter matching activities next using Montessori sandpaper letters, then your child will likely be around 4 years old.

It’s around this time when you’ll notice that your 4 year old child has developed the tripod grip and is suddenly interested in trying to write letters. This is the right time to introduce writing letters!

There's no sense trying to push alphabet tracing worksheets at a younger age. That's  just a waste of time and energy! Plus there's the risk that your toddler or preschooler will get in the habit of forming letters using an awkward grip on the pencil.

To practice writing letters once the tripod grip has developed naturally, I recommend using a chalkboard instead of letter tracing worksheets.

Most 4 year old children won’t have the fine motor skills to write small letters like you’ll find on most letter tracing worksheets.

With a chalkboard, your child can write letters as large as he or she needs. That way your child will use whole arm movements which will help build muscle memory of the pathway of each letter.

It’s also a bonus that early attempts to write a letter can be quickly and easily erased on a chalkboard. It’s an easy way to avoid feeling discouraged during the early stages of learning to write letters, especially if your child is a bit of a perfectionist and gets frustrated easily.

Quick Summary: Pre-Writing Activities for Toddlers and Preschoolers

There's no rush to get your 2 or 3 year old child to start writing letters before the hand and mind is ready.

It's better to educate yourself about the learning sequence and what to expect at each stage. Then you can observe where your child is at, offer the right activities at the right time and trust the process.

While you wait for the tripod grip to develop naturally, you can focus on several pre-writing activities.

  • Play beginning sound games so your child is ready to learn that letters represent speech sounds, and then use Montessori sandpaper letters to show what the beginning sound of a spoken word looks like. 
  • Offer opportunities for scribbling using short pieces of crayons and chalk.
  • Offer lots of practical life activities to strengthen the hand and develop concentration.
  • Write in front of your child using the tripod grip to model handwriting.

Let's stop worrying about kindergarten readiness checklists and focus on indirect preparation!

Related Article: Find out if your child is ready for preschool worksheets for letters and get tips for the best letter tracing worksheets.

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